Hello! How do you create a dating profile that’s gonna attract a man who’s a long-term generous thinker and reduce the amount of guys that are reaching out to you, guys who are selfish short-term thinkers, you know the ones that are just sending you dick pics, that are asking you for boobie pictures right away, but don’t want to meet for coffee or go up for dinner or do anything that actually takes time and investment, they just want to meet you for the hookup? So how do you create an online dating profile that’s going to not be a guy magnet but definitely be a man magnet? First thing, be fearless be fearless before sexy.
So what do I mean by that? A lot of women think that in order to attract male attention they have to have a sexy profile picture. Not true ladies! It’s not about how sexy you are to a MAN it’s about what do you have in common. Can he see himself living a life with you? Because that’s what he’s looking for is somebody to make a life with. Now if your profile picture is sexy you’re attracting the guy who’s looking for somebody to have sex with, so make sure your profile picture represents what you’re looking for, and do something in your profile picture that you love to do, because men are looking for somebody to share a life with and if they see something in your picture that they relate to they’re more likely to click on your bio and see what’s in there.
Now make sure your bio has a lot of detail about yourself because, again, the man is gonna read it, and he’s gonna want to check off the points. “Is she like me, can we get along?” Guys are not gonna read your bio, so don’t even worry about it when it comes to guys. If you get a response that is super short, “Hey” “You’re beautiful” :How’s your day” “What are you up to?” this is a guy! This is somebody who’s not read anything about who you are because he doesn’t care who you are, he just wants to know, “Are we gonna hook up?” If it’s a man he’s gonna write you something a little bit more lengthy about himself. He’s gonna connect to something in your profile and let you what it is about you that he found attractive – and trust me ladies, it’s going to be more than your boobs – so how do you reply? It depends. Go dig around.
If it’s a lengthy response to what you wrote go look at his profile obviously I know you’re gonna do that. If he doesn’t get descriptive about himself that’s kind of a red flag right there, because somebody who’s looking for a relationship he’s gonna be putting out the same behaviors that he wants you to put out, which is getting descriptive really kind of revealing himself a little bit because he’s looking for somebody he can connect to, and he wants to let you know that he’s somebody you can connect to as well. So again, if there’s not much in that profile move it along.
When do you have your first date? Do it soon and talk on the phone soon, get like a face-to-face, do like a FaceTime kind of thing. Make sure that you’re really connecting to the human being behind the words because it could be somebody in Africa trying to find a woman who’s gonna fall in love with them and then send them a ton of money. Do not fall for the scammers. So again when it comes to your profile be fearless before you’re sexy. I’ll talk to you soon ladies .